haha, my comments had nothing to do with “more me”…rather. with tonal balance of the whole against all the highs in the rest of the instrumentation.
The “lowness” is meant to be there and transfers as “fullness” or “power” when listened to in the context of the full recording…
After reading your comments and listening to the mix I’ve concluded I could have probably played on the higher register you are more used to hearing on bass to give you more of the tonality you are looking for.
The “even” result you’re looking for is easily accomplished by using an electric bass…A double bass has a “punch” followed by decay and echoing harmonic frequencies that give it that special natural/acoustic sound (wow, I’m inside the instrument!) It is the same as the difference in micing a guitar or using a pickup. The more compression you use the more you imitate using an electric instrument.
My normal starting point on mixing is to balance the “punch” of the bass with the chop of the mando and working for a compromise between what is heard through headphones and speakers, give the one and three a very slight boost in feel over two and four.(usually happens naturally due to the frequencies)
No big deal…we just have different ears…haha.
All that being said, I can hear the bass now in my headphones…