Regarding this very heavily used pull-off (or push-off):

So I can play this pretty ok since it’s so commonly used but every one I’ve seen do it where it sounds REALLY good and clean does basically a “flick” with their middle finger (almost like they are flipping the bird with their left hand) so I guess that would be considered a “push-off”?
When I do it I can’t quite get that flicking motion clean because I end up almost ALWAYS (even doing it real slow) hitting the 4th string with my left hand middle finger as I flick it. (and I even have a wide-neck banjo!)
Anyway, I have tried and tried to get it down like that but cannot seem to get past hitting the fourth string accidently.
I’ve gotten to the point where I just kind of gave up on doing it with that flicking motion but I want to try to nip that one in the bud earlier than later.
Any advice about how to do that one and avoid hitting the 4th string?
Keep practising buddy…hopefully we will all get there in the end.