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This Is Why I Joined Banjo Ben's

I thought I joined to learn to play the banjo. I’m still working on that.
But tonight I took part in my very first jam session with a bunch of strangers at a local fire hall. I even got up and led the group in “Rollin’ In My Sweet Baby’s Arms.”
No doubt it’s a copy written song and you won’t find the tabs on Ben’s site, but who cares? Ben’s been teaching me how to play the banjo, not just how to play songs. Learn to play the banjo and you can play any song you want!

Yes, I’ve been going to a Wernick “Let’s Jam” class, and that has taught me how to overcome my natural shyness about singing in public, but I never would have been there if Ben hadn’t taught me how to play a little bit of banjo music.

It was a novel experience for me. The guy who invited me is also a Beginner banjo player, but he’s been involved with music since grade school. Not me. I’ve only been doing it for three years.
So we went to the fire hall. I did not know what to expect, but I did not expect an audience. There were several rows of old people who were there for the music and us jammers were the main attraction! Probably a dozen pickers total, a mix of guitars, banjos, one harmonica, two fiddlers and one bass player. We played all kinds of music, from classic bluegrass to Beatles songs, show tunes, country-rock and Tin Pan Alley. But I knew how to play the right chords and pick out a melody or two. What was weird is the old geezers in the crowd enjoyed my banjo playing!

I thought I joined Banjo Ben’s to learn to play the banjo. What I found out tonight was I joined Banjo Ben’s so I could gather with like-minded people and share a really good time together.

Thanks, Ben. And thanks to all the Forum members who have helped me along the way!

This playing music is a lot of fun!

(Now I must learn "Man of Constant Sorrow"because one old lady thought my suspenders made me look like “the prison guy that sang that song in the movie.”
It took me a while to figure out that one! :grin:)

EDIT: One more thing. One of the banjo players there had a Stelling arch top banjo. He bought it in 1974, about the second year Geoff Stelling was making banjos. Amazing!

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That’s awesome! :slightly_smiling_face::+1:
Happy you had such a great time!

Yes!

And Yes!

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I have a feeling those folks are not going to be strangers for much longer @BanJoe !

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That’s fantastic!

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Ooohhh…I would have loved to have seen and heard that one. Glad you joined in. Hopefully one day for me. I hear you really can’t get to the next level without joining in jams.

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I’m suspecting that is true. At last night’s jam, they threw everything at me, from bluegrass to country to classic rock. Sometimes I was better off just sitting and listening, like when the song was in the key of E. (How weird for me!)
There was one woman in the audience who had a bunch of cue cards. Whoever was singing would tell her the key, and she would hold up a card with the correct key. No chord progressions, just the key. You figure it out from there.
Thanks to the Nashville Number System, I was able to grasp the general idea of where we were going, but not in all songs. It really did stretch my brain.
Funny thing, I missed the title of our last song, but the card said it was in G, so happy day for me!..I couldn’t hear the singer, so I still didn’t know what song we were playing, but when the guitar player changed chords, so did I. It wasn’t until the last verse that I realized we were play “Worried Man Blues!” Heck, that’s one of the easy ones! :grin:

Why does jamming with others make you a better player?
Based on my limited experience, I think it’s because you don’t have time to think about what you did wrong. Unlike a regular practice session where you are keenly aware of every note & every mistake, in the jam you don’t have time to do that. You just play through your mistake and get back on track. By “play” I mean something as simple as just doing a boom-chuck rhythm. If you’re good enough to throw in a couple quick licks or rolls, terrific! But if all you can do is keep time with some pinches, that’s good too. It all becomes part of a greater sound.

Check with your local fire halls, VFW’s, community centers, Elks club, American Legion & churches to see if they ever have any jam sessions. I think you might be surprised at what you find! Apparently these things never get advertised much beyond the walls of the organization.
And I think the jammers will welcome you with open arms & a friendly smile. Just make sure you bring a song to do. Any song. They will be happy to play along with you. You’ll be surprised how good “Boil Them Cabbage” sounds when there are many people playing it together!

I might even enjoy playing “Unclouded Day!” :scream:

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That made me laugh. So I’m hearing there’s a chance!! :grinning:

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That’s wonderful , I am also new here and getting a lot of information here

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Welcome to the board, Jasmine!

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No doubt about it! As a Beginner, my expert opinion is all this information is like going to an all-you-can-eat buffet, only to discover you can’t eat it all. Sometimes all this info gets overwhelming, and you might begin to think “I’ll never get this!” In truth, you will, but don’t try to digest it all at once. Just take bites from what you’re hungry for, and leave the rest to stew a little longer.
It will keep, and when you’re hungry again it will be ready for you.

I don’t know what instrument you’re learning, but I’ll bet you’re already the best player on your street!

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Man that’s great. I love the social aspect of bluegrass jams.

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Welcome to the forum @jasminecharl99

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